Erin Frier


Neal Ohlendorf

Wedding Party

Slater (Heather) Randall

Maid of Honor

Slater and I played soccer togeather right out of high school but didn't stay in touch when we moved off to college. We reconnected after college and bonded over our love of rugby and went on to play together for the next few years. We have had so many amazing, crazy, dangerous, adventures together we often joke that we're not allowed to hangout together without a chapperone. Slater has been an amazing friend thoughtout the years, more than I could have hoped to find, or ever wish for. She is strong, compassionate and most importantly not afraid to call me out. There was no question in my mind when it came to who I wanted to stand next to me as I take this step into my next greatest adventure.

Jekka (Jessica) Carroll


Jekka and I met on the practice feild at UC Davis, we became friends immediately and have been partners in crime ever since. Jekka has taught me not only the rules of rugby but the culture of rugby... and my life has been forever changed. The past 12 years have been full of the highest highs and the lowest lows and we've gone throught them together. Jekka is such a BA on and off the field, I'm so proud to call her my friend. She has filled her life with helping others. Jekka talks the talk and walks the walk and isn't afraid to be who she is. She is also one of the funniest girls I've ever met. I love spending time with Jekka and knew I needed to have her by my side on this big day.

Wendy Frier


I'm so happy to call Wendy my Sister-in-law! Wendy fits into the Frier-Willoh family like a puzzle piece we didn't know we were missing. I admire Wendy so much, her strength and tenacity are inspiring. When I met wendy she was working 3 jobs while being a single mom to two young girls. She's not only a hard working super-mom, she's an amazing friend! Wendy also puts Martha Stewart to shame... she's crafty, she can cook, she can build a bookshelf and gives birth to the most beautiful little girls... It's more like, what Can't Wendy do? When thinking of who I wanted by my side at my wedding it was a given that Wendy would be there.

Max Ohlendorf

Best Man

Max is my older brother and one of the smartest guys I know. Being the oldest brother he often led us into trouble... and occasionally out of it. I followed his example and looked up to him even when we weren't getting along. As an adult, I still look to Max for support and guidance. I know that I can call him any time for help day or night or even when he's on a plane to China. When it came to choosing my best man I knew it could only be Max. I'm looking forward to his advice and support as I start this new chaper in my life.

Peter Frier


Pete is Erin's older brother and welcomed me into the family from day one. He is a good dad and a great cook, his smoked meats are delicous! I always have fun hanging out with him, working side by side to keep the Destiny universe safe. Pete's super smart and melow attitude help me see things from a different perspective and I appreciate his advice. I look forward to officially joining his family.

Erik & Ian Allegoren


I have known Erik & Ian as long as I can remmeber. Our parents are friends and we spent almost every holiday together growing up. As kids we mastered the worlds of Dungens & Dragons and went to summer camps together in Trinity County. Together we grew up through good times and bad, through thick and thin. There was no question that these two would be by my side on this important day.

Clara May Frier

Flower Girl/Child

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